Your Self-Sabotage Wound Pattern is:

The Detail-Oriented Perfection Seeker

You are the Detail-Oriented Perfection Seeker, driven to excel. Your high standards and relentless pursuit of excellence often bring success, but they can also create overwhelming pressure from within.

The Childhood Roots of Your Self-Sabotage:

Your perfectionism isn't just about doing well; it's a shield you forged in childhood to protect against criticism and rejection. Growing up, you may have learned that approval and affection were awarded only when you were 'perfect.' This has ingrained a belief that your worth is tied to how flawlessly you perform, turning every endeavor into a high-stakes scenario where there is no room for error.

How to Heal It:

The key to healing this wound pattern is to decouple your “achievements and competence” from your sense of “being worthy of love” - this feeling of “being loved - but only if I achieve” and having to endlessly “earn love” in your life, is the stubborn crux of this very valid and normal childhood wound pattern - and it is not your fault.

Our program on Overcoming Self-Sabotage is designed to help you unravel these deep-seated beliefs and replace them with a deep and clear-eyed understanding of self-worth that is not conditional on achievements. Through precise guidance and powerful reflection exercises, you will learn to recognize and fully feel your inherent worthiness, separate from what you “achieve”, thus easing the compulsive need for perfection.

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